Painting The Silence...

Right now, I'm in my bed, pondering a question posed by a friend of mine this afternoon. To think I get this question often, not only fro m guys but from friends as well, it made me think. "What qualities am I really looking for in a potential mate?" My pal asked me this 'coz she was wonde ring why I don't seem looking for someone special when in fact, it has already been more than a year since I last got ou t of a relationship. She even said, if she were in my shoes, she could have had her pick by now, considering she has a thing for one of my prospective suitors. But honestly, I don't have any idea either. I guess I'm at that stage where I'm enjoying to the fullest the "benefits" of being a pursued-single. I find it funny that most girls my age would worryingly cringe at the ide a of not being settled yet, with fear that they might not find anyone at all.. You see, there are a few different kinds of girl-species and I ...