It's been a while since I last logged in to my blogger account. I said to myself, I better make up for the lost time by posting on something worthy to read for my fellow bloggers..
To start with, this article is not intended to badmouth any person who will be unfortunately dragged in while I write this. My blog is with purpose~~ first, to hopefully inspire other people especially those who are presently at their lives' crossroads, to prove to them that there is indeed a real fairytale and it comes true, only in different forms and ways..
Just liek any other normal girl, I too had my heart broken once or twice in the past. I guess heartaches are just inevitable. They're bound to hit you whether you like it or not.
Two years ago, after my seemingly "publicized" relationship ended, people expected me to jump quickly into the dating bandwagon as it officially meant that I was again free to roll and have fun with my life as a single available chick. Well yeah, point taken... But i had other plans in mind..
When someone gets out of a relationship so bad that you couldn't even imagine any single happy moment in it, you'd naturally feel sorry for that person, thinking, THAT'S IT for her... I went through that crap once... Most girls that I know who have been in the same shoes that I've been have given up on love and self esteem after a bad case of male chauvinism. They've become so badly jaded with the idea of relationships and second chances of finding happiness for good... They've lost their sense of direction and continue living blindly with the motto that love isn't just for them.
But I am different. I never shared the same reason. I was born a natural romantic, always have been and always will be.. No amount of heartache can change my belief in love, real life prince charmings who sweep you off your feet, and fairytale endings.
And so, in those two years, I chose to have a blast... And I did. Starting from those two years marked the very best years of my life. I went out, had fun, explored the world as much as my means could get me, learned a thing or two about myself, loved me even more, and realized that there is so much to life than what I thought. It's true that only you can make a difference in your life, and it is your perspective that will shape the future you want for yourself. For me, I chose to love myself and be happy for a while.
Guys come and go. That's one thing I learned. I opted to know a few who showed interest in me, tried the dating scene once or twice, had something fancy with a special friend for a short while... And then I thought, was I having too much fun that I've turned complacent? I never worried about not settling down thinking I got the world in my hands.. Call me arrogant but with all the eligible guys I was blessedly surrounded with, I knew I could make I choice anytime I wanted. I left the worrying to other who constantly reminded me that I am already at age.. But I knew better.. Somewhere in my heart, I knew what I wanted. I always believed that time will arrive at my feet and I will just know, "IT'S TIME"... I won't have any doubts whatsoever. I never wanted to hurry myself just to appease anybody. I will never go for something that my heart doesn't approve. I want things accordingly. I opted to wait for my prince charming to come, and for my real life-fairytale to happen... And it did...
It's true after all... Princes do exist in our lifetime. I found mine in Leihson's persona.. Only, my prince didn't come dressed in anything fancy nor in a white horse but in an Ãœber cute Abercrombie and a sleek Beemie convertible. Still, he was the same handsome prince charming I envisioned him to be... After countless letters, truckloads of flowers, a dog and endless conversations, the prince I can see myself growing old with has finally arrived... For those years that I chose to enjoy for myself, Leihson never faltered. He showed how determined he was to win my heart. Never have I seen such love and care. As I said, I was a believer of love and second chances. But it was beyond my imagination that someone so kind and loving as Leihson could ever come into my life. He has always been there to shower me with love. Never have I felt so important. I have never felt so secure in my life. With this prince, I never have to worry about anything..
It's nice to think that I have done a heap of good things in the past to be given this kind of karma. And so I say this to all those girls who are still hung up on their failed relationships especially those who have been sticking it up with guys who do nothing but mistreat and abuse them. Girls, there is a whole lot of world out there!!! Open your eyes!!! All you need is to put yourself together and make a choice. Either love yourself and choose to be happy, or forever sulk in regret for being so stubborn.
Love is a gift that is ought to be enjoyed. It isn't something you just stick up with. Standing by the person you love despite the pain he causes is very noble, but remember, nobility comes with a price. If you choose to become a martyr, you may have to endure this life-long sacrifice and stay miserable for the rest of your life... After all, you cannot impose change on someone... It just won't happen...
Now the options lay ahead. It's all up to us to make the right choice. In my case, I chose to be happy, and I ended up perfectly fulfilled with myself, now even complete with my real life-prince charming, and a fairytale yet waiting to unfold. ( The load down on all the future things to come for sure to be posted here very soon)
Who knows... YOu youself might get your own fairytale.. Always remember, your life's path depends on what you want.. For God's sake, choose the right one...
To start with, this article is not intended to badmouth any person who will be unfortunately dragged in while I write this. My blog is with purpose~~ first, to hopefully inspire other people especially those who are presently at their lives' crossroads, to prove to them that there is indeed a real fairytale and it comes true, only in different forms and ways..
Just liek any other normal girl, I too had my heart broken once or twice in the past. I guess heartaches are just inevitable. They're bound to hit you whether you like it or not.
Two years ago, after my seemingly "publicized" relationship ended, people expected me to jump quickly into the dating bandwagon as it officially meant that I was again free to roll and have fun with my life as a single available chick. Well yeah, point taken... But i had other plans in mind..
When someone gets out of a relationship so bad that you couldn't even imagine any single happy moment in it, you'd naturally feel sorry for that person, thinking, THAT'S IT for her... I went through that crap once... Most girls that I know who have been in the same shoes that I've been have given up on love and self esteem after a bad case of male chauvinism. They've become so badly jaded with the idea of relationships and second chances of finding happiness for good... They've lost their sense of direction and continue living blindly with the motto that love isn't just for them.
But I am different. I never shared the same reason. I was born a natural romantic, always have been and always will be.. No amount of heartache can change my belief in love, real life prince charmings who sweep you off your feet, and fairytale endings.
And so, in those two years, I chose to have a blast... And I did. Starting from those two years marked the very best years of my life. I went out, had fun, explored the world as much as my means could get me, learned a thing or two about myself, loved me even more, and realized that there is so much to life than what I thought. It's true that only you can make a difference in your life, and it is your perspective that will shape the future you want for yourself. For me, I chose to love myself and be happy for a while.
Guys come and go. That's one thing I learned. I opted to know a few who showed interest in me, tried the dating scene once or twice, had something fancy with a special friend for a short while... And then I thought, was I having too much fun that I've turned complacent? I never worried about not settling down thinking I got the world in my hands.. Call me arrogant but with all the eligible guys I was blessedly surrounded with, I knew I could make I choice anytime I wanted. I left the worrying to other who constantly reminded me that I am already at age.. But I knew better.. Somewhere in my heart, I knew what I wanted. I always believed that time will arrive at my feet and I will just know, "IT'S TIME"... I won't have any doubts whatsoever. I never wanted to hurry myself just to appease anybody. I will never go for something that my heart doesn't approve. I want things accordingly. I opted to wait for my prince charming to come, and for my real life-fairytale to happen... And it did...
It's true after all... Princes do exist in our lifetime. I found mine in Leihson's persona.. Only, my prince didn't come dressed in anything fancy nor in a white horse but in an Ãœber cute Abercrombie and a sleek Beemie convertible. Still, he was the same handsome prince charming I envisioned him to be... After countless letters, truckloads of flowers, a dog and endless conversations, the prince I can see myself growing old with has finally arrived... For those years that I chose to enjoy for myself, Leihson never faltered. He showed how determined he was to win my heart. Never have I seen such love and care. As I said, I was a believer of love and second chances. But it was beyond my imagination that someone so kind and loving as Leihson could ever come into my life. He has always been there to shower me with love. Never have I felt so important. I have never felt so secure in my life. With this prince, I never have to worry about anything..
It's nice to think that I have done a heap of good things in the past to be given this kind of karma. And so I say this to all those girls who are still hung up on their failed relationships especially those who have been sticking it up with guys who do nothing but mistreat and abuse them. Girls, there is a whole lot of world out there!!! Open your eyes!!! All you need is to put yourself together and make a choice. Either love yourself and choose to be happy, or forever sulk in regret for being so stubborn.
Love is a gift that is ought to be enjoyed. It isn't something you just stick up with. Standing by the person you love despite the pain he causes is very noble, but remember, nobility comes with a price. If you choose to become a martyr, you may have to endure this life-long sacrifice and stay miserable for the rest of your life... After all, you cannot impose change on someone... It just won't happen...
Now the options lay ahead. It's all up to us to make the right choice. In my case, I chose to be happy, and I ended up perfectly fulfilled with myself, now even complete with my real life-prince charming, and a fairytale yet waiting to unfold. ( The load down on all the future things to come for sure to be posted here very soon)
Who knows... YOu youself might get your own fairytale.. Always remember, your life's path depends on what you want.. For God's sake, choose the right one...
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